How to Heal a Broken Marriage: Biblical Steps for Restoration
In this circumstance, the counsel of Apostle Paul to the church in Ephesus is particularly relevant. As he concluded a section of his epistle, he admonished them, saying:
“Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore, put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints” (Ephesians 6:10-18, NIV).
This passage emphasizes the importance of spiritual strength and preparedness in facing life’s challenges, particularly those that arise in relationships and family life. Prayer, as highlighted by Paul, plays a central role in sustaining and healing marriages. Whether a family is experiencing joy or facing difficulties, prayer is indispensable. James further underscores this point:
How to Overcome Common Marital Problems and Build a Happy Marriage
“Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray. Is anyone cheerful? Let him sing psalms. Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer of faith will save the sick, and the Lord will raise him up. And if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven. Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much” (James 5:13-16, NKJV).
This counsel is especially applicable to husbands and wives. If one partner is less inclined to pray, the other should continue to pray faithfully for the family, trusting in God’s power to bring transformation. As Paul reminds us, “How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?” (1 Corinthians 7:16, NIV).
What Are the Responsibilities of a Husband in Marriage? A Biblical Perspective
Some Marital Problems, Their Sources, and Suggestions to Heal Their Wounds
In the following chapters (6 to 14), I will explore the causes of family problems, drawing from my own experiences and those of other couples I have encountered. These reflections will offer solutions grounded in biblical teachings, supplemented by insights from marriage counselors, mature Christian friends, and elders whose advice aligns with Scripture. This approach stems from my firm conviction that there is no lasting solution to any problem outside of God.
How Marriage Affects Happiness, Success, and Well-Being
It is important to note that the discussions ahead assume situations where the husband, wife, in-laws, children, or relatives may contribute to familial challenges. These reflections do not apply to individuals who are already maintaining harmonious and happy homes but rather address scenarios where relationships are strained and in need of healing.
By relying on God’s Word and the power of prayer, we can navigate marital challenges and work toward restoring peace, love, and unity in our homes.
